Happiness Matters

Dear Working Mothers & Wives, How many times have you faced the dilemma of completing an urgent report on time vs feeding your child till her tummy is full? What to choose - a quality time with my child vs office parties? Now, my question is why cannot we have everything? Why can't I have it all? As a person I want to excel in my career, maintain good rapport with my work colleagues at the same time I want to witness and be there at every growing stage of my child. Why is the situation either or and not and? Again, another question that pops up is why don't the fathers face this dilemma? The answer is simple- they have already chosen their 100% dedication towards their work life as they feel by default it is the mother who would be the primary caregiver for the child who has been created by both. And, fathers are not to be blamed. You know why? Because just like our society has labelled mothers to be the primary caregiver for the child, it has also labelled fathers as the m...